Failure to report vs. false allegations

In this corner, we have “failure to report,” a situation where a person fails to report child abuse.  The person can be fined or jailed.

And in this corner, we have “false allegations,” a charge that a person (women are often to blame) makes a malicously false allegation (to see how popular this is, google “false allegations” and see all the fathers’ rights sites pop up).  A person can be fined, jailed or lose custody over a supposedly “false” allegation.

Ding

Round one begins:

CPS: Child beating victim in very serious condition

JASPER COUNTY – Investigators say the father of a 5-year-old boy chased him around the yard with a chainsaw after beating him so severely the youngster is now in very critical condition at a hospital.

The child’s father, John Cornelius, 24, is charged with Injury to a Child and jailed on a $500,000 bond.  Cornelius’ girlfriend, Jessie Waddell, and her mother, Wanda Macks, 54, are charged with Injury to a Child and Failure to Report an injury.  Their bonds are a total of $140,000 each. 

Waddell isn’t the boy’s biological mother.

Shari Pulliam with Child Protective Services says Waddell and Macks told investigators Cornelius chased his 5-year-old son around the yard with a chainsaw last weekend because he was mad the child complained that his leg hurt after he was beaten. 

The boy had surgery Wednesday night and underwent a third operation Thursday afternoon at a Houston hospital. Pulliam says he’s in critical condition and adjusting to a ventilator.

Pulliam says the boy has a MRSA staph infection which began in his leg and spread throughout his body. 

Judge dismisses abuse allegations

In the last two years, Nicole Vanosdel has made at least three reports of alleged sex abuse involving her ex-husband. The reports included allegations of touching, kissing and fondling alleged by their daughter, the mother said.

Each time, Iowa’s Department of Human Services has not found enough evidence to confirm, or found, the girl’s accounts, Nicole Vanosdel said.

On Friday, the girl called 911 again, alleging she had suffered abuse – but not that night. She was questioned, examined at a hospital and placed in Children’s Square shelter with about 10 other children.

She remained at the shelter until Wednesday, when her mother, the primary custodial parent, was allowed to pick her up. Vanosdel said she has a 15-year-old daughter from another relationship, and she has no problems allowing the teen to visit her father.

Child abuse experts said Wednesday that most allegations of sex abuse wind up not being prosecuted for lack of evidence.

“Often, all you have is the child’s word,” said Donita Faust, a licensed social worker and forensic interviewer for the regional children’s protection center at Blank Children’s Hospital in Des Moines.

However, Faust and other experts said young children rarely lie about such things. And it’s extremely rare for young children to lie consistently about sex abuse.

Can’t we sue judges for “failure to prosecute”?! 

Why don’t we believe the children?!  The father countered her claim of sexual abuse with the pseudo-scientific claim of parental alienation syndrome (PAS). PAS has been discredited by the American Medical Association, the American Psychological Association, and the American Prosecutors Research Institute and the National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges. YET THIS JUDGE BELIEVES THE FATHER’S CLAIM OF PAS AND NOT THE CHILD’S CLAIM OF SEXUAL ABUSE.  

Failure to report vs. false allegations have put women between a rock and hard place, especially in family court. Don’t report abuse and you can be fined or jailed. Report abuse and get branded a liar – moreover, you can be fined, jailed or lose custody for making a “false” allegation of abuse. That means your child will live with the person who is allegedly abusing him or her. Laws that punish people for “false allegations” are on the rise due to many fathers’ rights groups lobbying efforts. Punishment deters reporting. One has to wonder why fathers would want to punish people for making abuse allegations – doesn’t sound very fatherly to me, does it to you?

More rounds to come…

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14 comments on “Failure to report vs. false allegations

  1. Thanks so much for letting us use this for The Blog Carnival Against Child Abuse. I so appreciate your strength, courage and advocacy.

  2. The children are the ones who suffer the decisions of these arrogant judges who refuse to believe. Like Marj, this makes me very angry. Thanks for posting this.

  3. Justice for the Children says:

    Stephen Doyne Ignores Sexual Abuse

  4. […] From “Failure to Report”: Mother Gets Custody of Child Back Who Was Chased by Father With Chainsaw Filed under: Activism, Best interest of the child, Child Abuse, Child Custody, Child Custody Battle, Child Custody Issues, Child Custody Mediation, Child Custody for mothers, Child Support, Child custody for fathers, Children and Domestic Violence, Children's rights, Civil rights, Corrupt bastards, Custody for dads, Custody for moms, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Relations, Domestic Violence, Family Court Reform, Family Courts, Family Rights, Fathers Rights, Mother's Rights, Texas — justice4mothers @ 8:35 pm Great new!  I was hoping someone would step in and save this child that was in the “Failure to Report” corner of Miss J’s post! […]

  5. Karl says:

    The only people who have made this an issue, are the women (mostly) who have used false allegations to punish innocent men (mostly) for the crime of moving on in their life from her.

    If false allegations weren’t happening, and we not so common – FRA groups wouldn’t have a leg to stand on.

    If you want this to stop – educate women who use false allegations as their weapon of choice.

    • miss j says:

      I don’t believe women are using “false allegations” as weapons. I think denial is highly overlooked and it is a glaring characteristic of an abuser.

      Abuse is hard to prove – you need evidence and/or witnesses. Most women, as you know, DONT want to report their partner to the police. When they do report abuse, they are often not believed as we have a hard time understanding that humans commit abuse, including child sexual abuse. They can be punished, jailed and lose custody for a so-called false allegation. As a public health professional, this punishment deters reporting – not want any decent human being, let alone PH pro wants to witnes. Moreover, statistics bear out that abusive parents get unsupervised visitation, joint/sole custody. It is extremely rare that a parent is denied access – as if parental rights trump children’s safety.

      Moreover, research shows men make MORE false allegations (usually of neglect) than women (see: Bala and Schumann)- yet stereotypes have more branding power than facts.

      I’ve researched this topic for years and I know all about the commercial interest and backlash against women claiming abuse. Just google “false allegations” and see all the backlash claiming women and children are liars.

      Liars or deniers, that is the question.

  6. This makes me so angry I hardly have words. Thanks for raising awareness. I will go back over to Twitter and retweet this.

    Also, would you be willing to submit this to THE BLOG CARNIVAL AGAINST CHILD ABUSE? We have a deadline at midnight tonight for a Friday edition. Details are at my blog (there’s a handy BC widget on my sidebar).

    • Missj says:

      marjakathriver – feel free to repost it and I’ll try to remember to take a look tonight to do it as well. Glad it can help raise some awareness – parents are between a rock & a hard place with reporting abuse, sadly enough.

  7. […] MEDIA MISSES: Failure to report vs. false allegations Failure to report vs. false allegations […]

  8. […] Round One: Failure to Report vs. False Allegations Filed under: Activism, Best interest of the child, Child Abuse, Child Custody, Child Custody Battle, Child Custody Issues, Child Custody Mediation, Child Custody for mothers, Child Pornography, Child Protective Services, Child Rape, Child Support, Child custody for fathers, Children and Domestic Violence, Children who witness abuse, Children's rights, Civil rights, Custody for dads, Custody for moms, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Relations, Domestic Violence, Family Court Reform, Family Courts, Family Rights, Fathers Rights, Getting screwed by the Family Courts, Hate Crimes, Human Rights, Intimate Partner Assault, Maternal Deprivation, Non-custodial Mothers, Noncustodial Mothers, Protect yourself from FR groups, Speak Out, Violence against women — justice4mothers @ 8:09 pm This is a great and very relevant post, written by Miss J from Media Misses: […]

  9. […] leave a comment » This is a great and very relevant post from Media Misses: […]

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